By Ellie Tesher on July 19th, 2014
Dear Readers: Following are two leftover questions from my online chat on same-sex relationships (June 25): Q: I’m a gay male whose longtime partner passed away over 18 months ago. I’m just now emerging from my isolation and sadness, and would like to start dating someone who’s near... Read More »Be the first to comment!
By Ellie Tesher on July 18th, 2014
Q: I’m a woman, 38, whose same-sex partner seems to be spending a lot more time with her female co-worker, though she swears the other woman is straight and nothing’s going on. But I feel they’re having an emotional affair and it hurts me just as much. ... Read More »Be the first to comment!
By Ellie Tesher on July 15th, 2014
Q: I got a job with a friend who was in a two-month relationship with the manager. Right away, they fought and the manager and I started talking more. She got a new job. As soon as they broke up, we hung out and had sex. I felt... Read More »Be the first to comment!
By Ellie Tesher on July 12th, 2014
Q: I’m a smart, happy, fashionable girl in high school, just turned 16. My boyfriend of two months is 43. We met at the mall. I disagree that a secret relationship’s hiding something. My parents are highly educated professionals, so is my boyfriend. But we’re secret because society... Read More »Be the first to comment!
By Ellie Tesher on July 8th, 2014
Q: My wife and I met eight years ago, married for six years, second marriage for both. She brought a son whom I love very much; my three daughters are all married, have full-time jobs, their own homes, and I have four grandchildren so far. My wife’s 44,... Read More »Be the first to comment!
By Ellie Tesher on July 5th, 2014
Q: I’ve fallen in love with my husband’s best friend. Neither he nor I could stop it because our feelings are so powerful. He and my husband have been friends for years, but are very different. I think I was attracted to the same thing in both -... Read More »Be the first to comment!
By Ellie Tesher on July 4th, 2014
Q: I’m in a four-year relationship with a man I love. I’m mid-40s; we both have good jobs, and share many interests. It’s the best relationship I’ve known. The one major negative has been his ex-wife’s stubborn refusal to complete their divorce. She holds him hostage to... Read More »Be the first to comment!
By Ellie Tesher on July 2nd, 2014
Q: After a decade of marriage, I could no longer accept my husband’s excuses when I suspected some trust issues. I’ve finally confronted, and had confirmation from him, that he’s repeatedly cheated on me. I’m mid-30s, and was recently diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. With the added stress of... Read More »Be the first to comment!
By Ellie Tesher on June 28th, 2014
Q: I have a great relationship with my boyfriend; we spend most of our time happily together, or together with his friends. However, I kept feeling the need for having friends of my own and my boyfriend assured me that once I got a job, these things would... Read More »Be the first to comment!
By Ellie Tesher on June 27th, 2014
Q: My husband and I decided to watch some porn (not extreme), partly out of curiosity since we discovered that our son, who’s 18 and finished high school, was downloading a lot more than we’d ever suspected. I admit we were aroused by some of it, but we... Read More »Be the first to comment!