Saturday, June 1, 2024

By Lethbridge Herald Obituaries on June 1, 2024.

PACKHAM, Elba PACKHAM Elba May Packham, of Fort Macleod, Alberta, beloved wife of Irwin Packham, passed away surrounded by family on Monday, December 4, 2023, at the age of 85 years.
She is survived by her son Scot, daughter Joanne (Gordon Huff), son Gary, and daughter Jody (Grant) Dugan. She is also survived by her beloved grandchildren Jonathan, Nathaniel, Cassandra (Tim) Gifford, Chelsea (Mike) Lyle, Jordan, Kimberly (Trevor) Galla, and Travis; great-grandchildren Macie Lyle, Cameron Lyle, Josh Galla, Emma-May Galla, and Olivia Galla; her brother George (Joan) Huddlestun; as well as numerous nieces, nephews, and their families.
Mom was predeceased by our brother Darren Packham; our grandparents Fred and May Huddlestun and Frank and Kathleen Packham; her sister Pamela Huddlestun; her brother William “Bill” Huddlestun; and sisters-in-law Joyce Huddlestun and Doreen Huddlestun.
Our mom was born in Pincher Creek, Alberta and raised on a farm just east of Twin Butte. She married our father in 1958, and together they raised a family of five children. Our parents lived many years in the north working side-by-side in business spending 20 years as owners of the True Value Hardware and V&S Variety stores in High Level, Alberta.
In 2001, our parents retired to Fort Macleod which is exactly where our mom wanted to be – closer to friends and family. Our mom loved gardening, reading, socializing and over the years hosted many parties, special holiday events, and family gatherings.
She touched the lives of many people and will be dearly missed and lovingly remembered.
A Celebration of Life will be held at 1:00PM on Saturday, June 8, 2024, at Eden’s Funeral Home, 2424 – 5 Avenue, Fort Macleod. Social to follow at the Pioneer Lodge, 660 – 28 Street, Fort Macleod.
Condolences may be sent through http://www.edensfuneralhome.com

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WEATHERHEAD-MCCOY, Shannon Shannon Weatherhead-McCoy
1962 – 2024 Shannon May Weatherhead-McCoy, beloved wife of Kelly McCoy, passed away in Lethbridge after a courageous battle with illness on Wednesday, May 22, 2024 at the age of 61 years.
The celebration of Shannon’s life will be held at the Burdett Community Hall, 311 Main Street, Burdett on Friday, June 21, 2024 at 2:00 P.M. A private burial will follow at the Burdett Cemetery. Condolences may be forwarded by visiting our website at http://www.southlandfuneral.com.
Shannon is survived by her loving husband, Kelly; son Bret (Danica) McCoy of Fort Saskatchewan and their son Owen; daughter Spencer (Jordan) Whittaker of Lethbridge and their sons Luca and Noah, as well as her joyfully anticipated first granddaughter. She is also survived by her sisters Michele (Ron) Smith of Maple Ridge and Tami (Burke) Torscher of Taber; parents-in-law Don and Isabelle McCoy of Milk River as well as many nieces, nephews, cousins, aunts and uncles.
She was predeceased by her parents, Mavis and Larry Weatherhead; sister Jodi; brother-in-law Allan McCoy and sister-in-law Gloria McCoy, like her surviving family, they all benefited from her care in their lives.
Shannon came into the world on June 13, 1962, the first of four daughters born to Larry and Mavis Weatherhead. Small but strong, she was able to balance on her dad’s palm while held high in the air. This early demonstration of a brave and strong spirit was an important theme throughout her life, inspiring her to live countless adventures as well as helping her cope with health challenges. Shannon grew up in Burdett, attending elementary school there and high school in Bow Island. After graduating, her adventurous nature took her to Australia for a year on an agricultural exchange alongside dear friends. She returned home and completed her nursing studies at Lethbridge Community College and embarked on a career that brought her fulfillment and pride. On May 17, 1986, she married the love of her life Kelly McCoy of Milk River and began her nursing career. In 1989, she had her first child, Bret, in Regina, while Kelly finished RCMP training. The new little family made their way to Rae, Northwest Territories, where she enjoyed early motherhood and thrived as an outpost nurse. Her daughter Spencer, born in 1991, completed the family. When Kelly was transferred to Drumheller, Shannon worked at the Drumheller hospital and eventually acquired a position at the Drumheller penitentiary as Chief of Health Care. She held that position until 2005 when she went to work at the Peter Lougheed Hospital. The family relocated to Strathmore and eventually when her health made it difficult for Shannon to continue working, she reluctantly retired, and they transferred to Coaldale to be closer to family. Three precious grandsons came along and stole her heart. Beyond her fierce love for her family, and passion for caregiving, Shannon loved to travel with her husband and family, especially loving her trips to the Holy Land and to St. Maartin. She had a passion for raising beagles, treating them like humans, and spending time in her kitchen creating delicious meals for her family.
While these last years, and last months in particular, brought many health challenges for Shannon, she fought with all her strength to stay with her family. It is that strength and determination to show up for her family that her loved ones will draw on in the coming days.
If friends so desire, memorial donations to honour Shannon’s memory can be made directly to the Alberta SPCA, 17904 – 118 Avenue N.W., Edmonton, Alberta T5S 2W3 (www.albertaspca.org) or to Cure HHT Canada, 827 – 27 Avenue East, Vancouver, British Columbia V5V 2L1 (www.curehhtcanada.org).
The McCoy and Weatherhead families wishes to thank all the medical professionals, friends and family involved in her care and comfort.
Arrangements in care of Southland Funeral Chapel, Taber. Telephone: (403) 223-8778.

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STALKER, Alexa ALEXA STALKER 2004 – 2024 It is with great sadness that the family of Alexa Stalker announce her sudden passing on Saturday, May 18, 2024, at the age of 20.
Alexa will be remembered by her parents Trevor and Crystal Stalker, siblings; Zachari (Kariza), Xzila, and Exodis; her grandparents Alan and Teresa Stalker, Angela Sutherland, Wade McNeil; great- grandfather Douglas Stalker; and many aunts, uncles and cousins.
Alexa was predeceased by her great grandparents Tom and Arlene Baldrey, Beverly Stalker, Edward Sutherland and Florence Letendre, and Alexa’s cousin Alan Sutherland.
A private service will take place on Saturday, June 1, 2024. The family thanks Martin Brother’s Funeral Chapel for their kindness, care and compassion.
Visit http://www.mbfunerals.com to send a condolence.

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CASSIS, Hilda HILDA MARIE CASSIS (NÉE JOHNSTON) 1935 – 2024 It is with great sadness that we announce the death of Hilda Marie Cassis, beloved wife of Dr. Awny F. Cassis, who passed away peacefully on May 20, 2024, at the age of 89.
Survived by her loving husband, Dr. Awny Cassis; her sister Verna Jennings; her children Irene (Brent Daviduck), Jehan (Ludvik Pahulje), Marie (Francois Arcand) and Nevine (David Matthews); Hilda was the beloved grandmother to Quinn, Kahn and Sefrah Daviduck, Stefan and Mikaela Pahulje, Finley and Nadia Matthews and also cherished by her many nieces and nephews in Canada, Ireland, England and Egypt.
She was predeceased by her parents, Henry and Bridget Johnston, and her siblings Reginald Johnston, Muriel O’Loughlin, Kenneth Johnston, and Trevor Johnston.
Hilda was born in Dublin, Ireland to Henry and Bridget Johnston on February 17, 1935. The third oldest of six children in an Irish Catholic family, faith was a central part of her life, often with a rosary in hand and Irish Gaelic prayers in her heart.
Her many passions in life included theatre, song, dance, and athletics. From the famous Abbey Theatre to the tennis courts of Glasnevin, she relished activity, especially tennis. Never one to drive, she loved long walks and bicycling. For adventure, she enjoyed travels to Italy, Germany, and England.
Hilda attended Parnell Technical School for Office Administration in Dublin where eventually her sister Verna introduced her to a handsome scholar and international student from Egypt, attending Trinity College. His name was Awny Cassis and that encounter forever changed the course of her life.
After a 6-month engagement to Awny, she packed her bags and sailed off by herself to get married in Cairo. She quickly adapted to the culture, the language, and the cuisine, as Mama Marie (Awny’s mother) happily welcomed her. Hilda often spoke of how graciously she was welcomed and loved by the Cassis family who were impressed with her proficiency in languages including Arabic.
In Egypt, Hilda was an Assistant English Teacher at St. George’s Boys School, combining her love of children and teaching and soon became mother to Irene and Jehan.
The next chapter of her life came 7 years later when the crossroads of war and opportunity led them to a new country, Canada, where Lethbridge, Alberta would become their new home. Landing in January 1968, in a massive snow blizzard, the shock from hot to freezing cold; from the metropolis of Cairo to the then small city of Lethbridge and its surrounding foothills would leave a lasting impression.
While Awny worked at the University of Lethbridge, Hilda worked selflessly at raising her daughters and soon welcomed the birth of Marie (Lethbridge) and Nevine (Dublin), while on sabbatical leave.
Hilda was known for her amazing cooking and exceptional desserts. From delicious meals for family and friends to entertaining University functions, her homemade pastries, Irish trifle, shortbread, Irish soda bread as well as her Egyptian meals and desserts were sought after.
Always a Dubliner at heart, she’d have the kettle on to share a “cuppa” tea with friends and family. Her persuading, radiant smile and twinkling blue eyes made all feel welcome! Always perceptive and willing to lend a hand whenever needed, she offered support, wisdom, and love in abundance. She cared deeply and it showed.
An avid knitter, sewer, and gardener, she created gorgeous Aran sweaters, sewed dresses and Irish dancing costumes for her girls with meticulous precision, and grew amazing flowers reminiscent of Ireland.
One of her greatest joys was watching her daughters on stage performing in many Irish dancing competitions (Feis). She enjoyed socials with the Irish community, providing fond reminders of her roots.
Despite facing serious illness, she defied all expectations with the loving and trusting guidance of her husband Awny (her primary caregiver) and support from her family. Always one to find the silver lining and face her fears and ailments with optimism, she found strength through her faith in God.
To commemorate Hilda’s life and our cherished memories, a Prayer Service will be held at 7:00 pm, Tuesday, June 4, 2024, at MARTIN BROTHERS RIVERVIEW CHAPEL, 610 – 4 STREET SOUTH, Lethbridge, Alberta. To watch via livestream, please visit https://www.mbfunerals.com/obituary/Hilda-Cassis
A Funeral Mass will be held at 12:00 pm, on Wednesday, June 5, 2024, at OUR LADY OF THE ASSUMPTION CHURCH, 2405 – 12 AVENUE SOUTH, Lethbridge. To watch via livestream please visit https://www.mbfunerals.com/obituary/Hilda-Cassis
Interment will follow at MOUNTAIN VIEW CEMETERY, 1210 SCENIC DRIVE SOUTH, Lethbridge.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to your choice of charity.
Visit http://www.mbfunerals.com to send a condolence.

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HAWTHORNE, Eleanor ELEANOR HAWTHORNE 1944 – 2024 Ms. Eleanor Hawthorne of Lethbridge passed away at Chinook Regional Hospital on Monday, May 6, 2024, at the age of 79 years.
A Graveside Service will be held at 1:00 p.m, on Saturday, June 1, 2024, at MOUNTAINVIEW CEMETERY, 1210 SCENIC DRIVE SOUTH, Lethbridge, Alberta.
The service will be recorded and may be viewed at https://www.mbfunerals.com/obituary/Eleanor-Hawthorne
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CARROLL, Sherry SHERRY CARROLL 1955 – 2024 Ms. Sherry Carroll of Lethbridge, passed away in Lethbridge on Monday, May 27, 2024 at the age of 69 years.
Cremation entrusted to Martin Brothers Funeral Chapels.
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FRIEL, Krista KRISTA FRIEL 1944 – 2024 Mrs. Krista Friel of Raymond, beloved wife of the late Mr. Charles Friel, passed away peacefully, surrounded by family at St. Michael’s Palliative Care Center on Wednesday, May 29, 2024 at the age of 80 years.
Cremation entrusted to Martin Brothers Funeral Chapels.
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COWIE, Meada MEADA COWIE 1952 – 2024 Mrs. Meada Cowie of Lethbridge (formerly of Claresholm), beloved companion of Mr. Wes Olmstead, passed away at home on Wednesday, May 22, 2024 at the age of 72 years.
Meada will be privately remembered by her loving friends and family. She will be laid to rest in the Claresholm Cemetery.
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MCMULLIN, Douglas “Doug” DOUGLAS MCMULLIN 1950 – 2024 Mr. Douglas “Doug” McMullin of Lethbridge, beloved husband of Mrs. Kathy McMullin, passed away on Saturday, May 25th, 2024, at the age of 73 years.
Doug will be privately remembered by his loving family and friends.
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AUCOIN, Carolyn AUCOIN CAROLYN FRANCES AUCOIN (nee Nihill and Elliott), of Lethbridge, passed away peacefully at St. Michael’s Health Centre, on Monday, May 20, 2024 at the age of 78 years.
A Celebration of Carolyn’s Life will be held at THE MIZ CITY CHURCH, 502 – 13 Street North, Lethbridge, AB, on Saturday, June 8, 2024 at 11:00 A.M. Carolyn was laid to rest in a private Family Graveside Service.
In lieu of flowers, the family would graciously accept a potted plant/flower or perennial so that it can continue to grow in the spirit of Carolyn.

To send a condolence, please visit http://www.cornerstonefuneralhome.com

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KULCSAR, Hans KULCSAR HANS RUDOLPH “RUDY” KULCSAR, passed away suddenly in his home in Magrath, AB on December 9, 2023 at the age of 68 years.
This chapter has ended but the stories will live on. Please join us as we celebrate the story of Rudy at the GERMAN CANADIAN CLUB, 902 – 6 Street North, Lethbridge, AB, on Saturday, June 1, 2024 at 1:00 P.M. We will tell stories, play games, eat some food, and maybe even peruse through one of his favourite books. Please dress casually as Rudy was more comfortable in sweats than a suit.

To send a condolence, please visit http://www.cornerstonefuneralhome.com

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TOKAI, Joseph “Joe” TOKAI JOSEPH “JOE” TOKAI, beloved husband of Shirley Tokai of Picture Butte passed away at the Chinook Regional Hospital on Monday, May 27, 2024 at the age of 90 years.
Besides his loving wife, Shirley, Joseph is survived by his children: Doug Tokai of Lethbridge, Brenda (Ray) Leavitt of Lethbridge, Ron (Richelle) Tokai of Picture Butte, Brian Tokai (Darlene) of Lethbridge, Randy (Karen) Tokai of Calgary, and Sandra Tokai of Picture Butte. Joseph is also survived by his sister, Elizabeth Davies; sister-in-law, Brigitte Tokai; brothers-in-law, Eddie Davies and Howard (Lana) Tonge; and numerous nieces and nephews.
He was predeceased by his son, Gary Tokai; grandson, Derek Tokai; son-in-law, Dan Forsyth; parents, Gabor and Barbara Tokai; sisters, Bernadette Nagy, Mary Davies, and Margaret Tokai; and brothers, Gabor Tokai and Steve Tokai.
Joe was born in Hill Spring, AB, March 26, 1934. He moved to Picture Butte at the age of five and spent his remaining years in Picture Butte, working and raising his large family with Shirley.
A Visitation will be held at CORNERSTONE FUNERAL HOME, 2825 – 32 Street South, Lethbridge, AB, on Tuesday, June 4, 2024 from 6:00 P.M. to 8:00 P.M.
Relatives and friends are invited to celebrate Joe’s life at the PICTURE BUTTE COMMUNITY CENTRE, 607 Hwy Avenue N, Picture Butte, AB on Saturday, July 6, 2024 at 1:00 P.M.

To send a condolence, please visit http://www.cornerstonefuneralhome.com

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PILLING, Beverly PILLING In loving memory of BEVERLY PILLING, who passed away at Legacy Lodge, surrounded by family, on Thursday, May 23, 2024.
Known for her vibrant spirit and candid nature, Bev’s legacy lives on through her daughters: Heidi and Holly Eisenhauer; grandchildren: Dorian, Adrianna and Eri; and great- grandchildren, along with her sisters, Pam and Fay; and extended family and friends.
Following Bev’s wishes, a private Viewing and Wake have been held.

To send a condolence, please visit http://www.cornerstonefuneralhome.com

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BERTSCH, Melvin “Mel” BERTSCH It is with heavy hearts the family of Melvin “Mel” Bertsch announce his passing on May 11th, 2024 at Chinook Regional Hospital. He was 73 years old born on February 4th, 1951 in Kerrobert, Saskatchewan.
Mel is survived by his loving wife, Dorothy, Two Sons Jeff (Amy) grandchildren Braxton and Ashton; Jay (Amy) grandchildren Taylor and Jayden. He is also survived by siblings Cyril, Dave, Marilyn, Murray and Al.
He was predeceased by his parents: Joseph and Genevieve Bertsch and brothers, Wilfred and Dale.
He retired from the Provincial Government after 35 years of service working at the Lethbridge Provincial Jail & was in charge of Court and Prisoner Security at the Lethbridge, Calgary and Edmonton court houses. After retirement he opened up his business DirtyDogg Pressure Washing which was his pride and joy being able to help others. He loved to spend 6 months time in his Phoenix home in the Winters.
We would like to extend sincere heartfelt thanks to the Intensive Care Unit nurses and Doctors who extended excellent care to make him as comfortable as possible. We are respecting Mel’s wishes to not have a funeral or celebration of life he was centered around his love for his grandkids and so lucky he was with them in the final months.

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